Resist the urge to feel sorry for yourself
Don't feel sorry for yourself
No matter what you're going through, resist the urge to feel sorry for yourself. Every time you dwell on self pity, spending your time feeling bad about what you're going through, you push yourself deeper into the pit of despair and make things worse for yourself. Self-pity is like the voice that tells you that you will never be able to overcome and is the thing preventing you from ever trying to.
There was a difficult phase in my life before I went to college. Life was hard because of academic pressure and mental issues. It made me depressed and self-pity was how I coped with it. Years after, I realised that the thing that I was using to cope with my hardships was the thing that was not only making everything worse but creating more problems for me.\
If you're a Christian remember that self-pity is the opposite of trusting God.